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補充：
                                                                               
     一直以為   跟別人借東西   當事人  同意  我們才可以動手拿
                                                                               
     而不是有說了   就可以直接動手    妳推文說要借了   可是我還沒回應
                                                                               
     就代表我還不知道這件事  更別提答應與否
                                                                               
                                                                               
     可是合購文在講完沒多久就貼了(我相信那幾分鐘的誤差   是在改時間地點)
                                                                               
     老實說    給我的感覺是 反正我有講了  就可以拿妳文章來用了   管妳答不答應
                                                                               
     這樣有任何尊重的誠意嗎？只是比都沒講的多了個擋箭牌：事先有講
                                                                               
     (雖然原作完全不知道)
                                                                               
     本質上不都一樣是不尊重別人的心血結晶嗎？原作的意願有在妳的考慮範圍內嗎？
                                                                               
     告知  和  詢問  兩者 是天差地別的吧
                                                                               
     還是說只要告知了   對方就一定得答應借文呢？  (所以先po也沒關係？)
 
                                                                               
                                                                               
     另外，想請問為什麼不直接寄信呢？直接寄信我一定看得到啊
                                                                               
     在一篇 " 已截止 " 的合購文推文  不擔心作者沒回來看  不能立即給予回應嗎
                                                                               
     (是說只是告知   有沒有回應    似乎也不在乎吧 )
                                                                               
                                                                               
      大家不好意思  又佔版面了   只是覺得這樣的行為很不尊重人
                                                                               
      在板上卻似乎無法可管    所以情緒很低落  (嘆)
                                                                               
                                                                               
      看自己的推文和文章都覺得我好兇    死不借人一篇小小的文章
                                                                               
      其實  我是願意借的  但不是在這種強迫的情況下
                                                                               
      那是一種fu   不被尊重的fu
                                                                               
      像自己的玩具   別人說句  借我  不等回應   就直接拿走   不舒服的感覺
                                                                                
                                                                       
 我一直很喜歡合購  也很愛開團    喜歡大家一起省錢 + 衝折扣
                                                                               
      一起討論 一起分享  板上那種溫馨的氣氛  可是   現在我真的只有難過和不開心
                                                                               
      想講句很酸的話   原來只要有講  就可以隨心所欲  當事人的意願一點也不重要喔
                                                                               
                                                                               
      其實想要句道歉   關於尊重的道歉    因為覺得
                                                                               
      尊重是要對方有感受到   才是尊重    而我沒感受到
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      (當然 ↑ 只是我的價值觀   說不定現在大家的觀念不是這樣了 )
                                                                               
                                                                               
      最後   要跟閱讀本文的人說聲不好意思   因為心情不好
                                                                               
      沒有心思用些可愛的表情符號   整篇氣氛很沉重   sorry